The Jeep Wave!

Well, I leased a Jeep. Those who know me recognize that I lease a new car every 3 years. You see, I know myself and I get bored, plus it includes maintenance and I have a fixed budget that I live within so it is the easiest way for me to keep myself in check and handle the abundance of travel I do as a priest, especially with so many weddings! So, I left VW and Mazda and decided it was time for something new!

Why a Jeep? Well, it may have been my midlife crisis moment, or the fact it’s the SUV of the Year for 2019, or that I had the excitement of driving one at this year’s Black Tie Tailgatefor Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia with Katelyn, or that I am still angry at Volkswagen for their climate lies. Whatever the reason, I did it and I love it and it was all thanks to Nick Nensel at Deal Hitmen (Their ad appears on the back of our newsletter cover every week!) What I did not know was that I was buying more than just a car, I was buying a community!

From the first time I rode home to several times each day, I get a wave! At first, I didn’t understand, then I thought it just a fluke, then Nick told me it was the famous “Jeep Wave”!

So, I have now discovered that owning a Jeep doesn’t just open up the opportunity for me to traverse the path less traveled, I have also gained a kinship among all other Jeep owners! This camaraderie is on display every time I pass another person driving a Jeep in the form of a wave. The Jeep Wave is an honor bestowed upon those drivers with the superior intelligence, taste, class and discomfort tolerance to own the ultimate vehicle: The Jeep! Oh ya, baby that’s me!

The Jeep Wave generally consists of a vigorous side-to-side motion of one or both hands, a raised hand waving, or two or four fingers extended upward from the steering wheel. However, I must say that my favorite version of the wave is usually just a raise of two fingers from the steering wheel and a slight nod. An homage to the peace sign!

Now the rules for the Jeep Wave are pretty straightforward. All Jeepers are responsible for upholding the tradition of the wave. If a fellow Jeeper waves, you are required to return the wave; it’s as simple as that.

Now, Katelyn thinks this all so funny! A fortuitous accident of luck, she calls it! You see, she (and almost anyone who knows me well) knows that I wave at everyone, and I say hello to everyone I pass! When I worked in the hospital as a Trauma Chaplain it drove my companions crazy! “Why would say hello and how are you to sick people?!” They demanded. “Why not?!” I would assert! “They need it more than anyone!” And so, do I!

I love the feeling I get when I see that wave now. No matter the type of day I am having, no matter where I am going or coming from, no matter how rough a day, I know there is someone who will give me that affirmative wave and somehow, almost magically, I am in a better mood; a better place. It is why I love remembering my mom this day, too. Moms do that very same thing. I kind of think my mom might love a Jeep ride soon!

This is how I have also come to know Saint Miriam. That almost magical place where church still means community, a loving God, a warm embrace, and where everyone is friendly and all of us wave at one another in some form or fashion every week! It is the gift we are giving to others, and the legacy we will one day leave to our children. It is why we sacrifice and give and support and work hard and build. That wave is more than just a wave, it is for us a sign of the truth of what we believe. I guess, maybe, we might one day have our own Saint Miriam Wave!

Well, until then, I gotta go! See you Sunday! I have a Jeep to wave at!

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